Dr Kirk is quoted in a HuffPo article about Adolescence (Netflix)
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Transference, Contraindication, and Sharing Art
Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.
00:00 What does the end of a good therapeutic relationship look like?
04:44 Does there have to be conflict for progress in therapy?
15:22 Do I have to meet an ex-client to receive their feedback?
22:05 Is couples therapy contraindicated?
27:35 Can you guide the client into terminating?
31:18 Is there an ethical obligation to meet with this client?
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2025-04-04 11:00:04 +0000 UTC View PostNarrative Therapy (Deep Dive) (2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about narrative therapy.
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Stop Having Sex With Clients
Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca review ethical cases.
00:00 Intro
01:37 Can clients be friends with their therapists?
18:06 My therapist is pseudo-family
38:50 Having an affair with my ex-therapist
1:06:47 Lady Gaga & self-care
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2025-04-02 11:00:09 +0000 UTC View PostPsychedelic Assisted Therapy (2020 Rerun)
[Rerun] Can psychedelics be used to help people? What’s the science? Expert and researcher, Elizabeth Nielson, explains the science and how we know what we know.
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Oscars, Alien Franchise, and Robert Crumb
Dr Kirk and Humberto talk about movies.
00:00 On Cinema at the Cinema journey
06:59 Oscar results & reactions
33:47 Why did Joker: Folie à Deux get bad reviews?
39:49 How do the Alien movies rank?
58:29 Crumb
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Loli Porn and Star Wars Poly
Dr Kirk and Humberto answer patron/member emails.
00:00 Intro
01:45 Does watching loli porn make me a pedophile?
42:56 Resonating with Star Wars
55:55 How much privacy is owed post-mortem?
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Piaget and Child Development (Deep Dive) (2018 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto talk about Jean Piaget and his research on child development.
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2025-03-27 11:00:09 +0000 UTC View PostTherapist Unpopular Opinions
Dr Kirk and Bob discuss a Reddit thread regarding the unpopular opinions of therapists.
00:00 "I hate DBT"
05:22 "CEUs are a scam"
20:52 "Only serious rest cures burnout"
33:56 "Not every kid needs a 'fix'"
1:01:33 Bob's bathroom remodel update!
1:05:09 "Therapists should be in therapy"
1:05:30 "Money hoarding should be listed in the DSM"
1:09:06 "Neurodivergent is too broa...
2025-03-26 11:00:06 +0000 UTC View PostSuing a counselor (2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Bob Goettle about a counselor who got sued successfully.
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Politically Problematic Friends, Toxic Masculinity, and Love Frugality
Dr Kirk and Humberto answer patron/member emails.
00:00 Humberto's thoughts on Emilia Perez
03:54 Deep dive relevancy
09:25 Can I be friends with different beliefs?
23:43 Dating and approaching with empathy
30:44 How has our society changed from domestic terrorism?
43:24 With age, do people get frugal with love?
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Adam Nimoy's Life with a Vulcan Father
Dr Kirk Honda interviews Adam Nimoy about his new book about growing up with a distant, alcoholic father: Leonard Nimoy.
00:00 Introducing Adam Nimoy & "The Most Human: Reconciling with My Father"
16:07 Taking inventory & choosing happiness
25:05 The influence of Star Trek
42:36 Adam's key takeaways
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Malpractice and Incompetence (2016 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda presents a case of malpractice.
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Therapy Termination, ACOA, and Couple Therapy
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.
00:00 How important are goodbyes?
12:35 ACOA & butler syndrome fallibility
29:34 How do you know if a family is ready for couples therapy?
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Stanford Prison Experiment (2016 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr Kirk Honda talks about the famous Stanford prison experiment of 1971.
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My License Complaint and Other Legal Matters
Dr Kirk Honda talks with Frances Schopick, JD, MSW about his license complaint and other legal matters. Disclaimers: This information in this presentation is for educational and informational purposes only. This presentation does not form an attorney/client relationship, or provide, constitute, or substitute for legal or clinical advice, advocacy, representation, supervision, or consultation. Do not form legal conclusions or policies based on ...
2025-03-17 11:00:10 +0000 UTC View PostLoving Therapists, Narcissistic Clients, and God Transference
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.
00:00 Can therapists tell their clients they love them?
21:36 Why isn't my therapist challenging me in therapy?
28:49 Treating narcissistic clients
45:31 What is transference in therapy?
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2025-03-14 11:00:05 +0000 UTC View PostGrief Theory (Deep Dive) #2 (Your Emails) (2020 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk discusses past and present theory regarding grief and loss.
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Reviewing Movies of 2024
Dr Kirk and Collin Miller review movies from 2024.
00:00 Calling in with Collin Miller
00:35 Second place films
24:11 Most controversial rankings
59:14 Movies at the bottom of the list
1:21:44 5 stars
1:27:11 6 stars
1:28:50 AI in films
1:42:21 7 stars
1:51:57 8 stars
2:04:24 Dr. Kirk's Number 1
2:07:25 Collin's Top 15
2:21:44 Collin's Number 1
2:26:38 Emilia Perez 2025-03-12 11:00:07 +0000 UTC View Post
Grief Theory (Deep Dive) #1 (2020 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk discusses past and present theory regarding grief and loss.
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Bad Therapists and Eye Contact
Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.
00:00 Eagles Super Bowl win
02:35 Can clients question their therapist?
33:08 Dr. Kirk's pet peeve of discernment counseling
40:02 Is eye contact in therapy important?
43:44 Am I abandoning my clients if I'm not being paid?
51:44 Addressing tough topics in therapy
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Poly Pressure, Love Songs, and Spanish Shame
Dr Kirk and Humberto respond to patrons and member emails.
00:00 Kink pressure
19:40 What songs accurately depict love?
34:58 Alignment chart and shopping carts
45:10 "Pedo" guy
47:5 Expressing shame in Spanish
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2025-03-07 12:00:06 +0000 UTC View Post10 Tips on Counseling Men (2015 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about how to counsel men.
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Pedophile Questions, Validating Distortions, and AI Psychologists
Dr Kirk Honda responds to patrons and member emails.
00:00 Was he a pedophile or just immature?
21:37 Does Dr. Kirk validate falsehoods?
32:50 Where does Dr. Kirk draw the line?
36:39 AI Psychologists
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Repressed Memories (Deep Dive)(2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about repressed memories and the new Netflix documentary, The Keepers.
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2025-03-04 12:00:08 +0000 UTC View PostKirk's Climate Rage
Dr Kirk Honda rants and rages about climate change.
00:00 Does Dr. Kirk think that climate change is hopeless?
21:09 Predicted impacts of climate change
55:01 Lying & individual impact
1:05:23 Dr. Kirk's climate summary & hope
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2025-03-03 12:00:08 +0000 UTC View PostPedophile Kinks, Alpha Males, and Systems Theory
Dr Kirk Honda responds to patrons and member emails.
00:00 Are DDLG relationships potential treatment for MAPs?
26:12 Why is being an alpha male considered a good thing?
47:10 What do these bootcamps promise?
1:03:21 Could there be positive outcomes from these bootcamps?
1:28:18 Is family systems theory interchangeable with internal family systems?
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How to Fail as a Therapist (Deep Dive) (2018 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about how therapists fail their clients.
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Disney Kinks and Touch Fears
Dr Kirk and Humberto respond to patrons and member emails.
00:00 Is it normal to develop a kink in childhood?
22:41 Why are power fantasies appealing?
42:59 Is my affection towards my children appropriate?
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2025-02-26 12:00:08 +0000 UTC View PostWhen Clients are Dangerous (2017 Rerun)
[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about the new laws regarding duty to warn.
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